Blissdom 2012 just wrapped up and we have all headed home, with exploding brains; armed with renewed interest and amazing experiences. You are bound to see many posts around the blogisphere talking about how amazing Blissdom was. Here is mine, it may be a little late, but I wouldn't let you down, and if you are tired of seeing all the Blissdom posts, I apologize.
I had seen many Blissdom posts over the years, from the time I started reading blogs, and before I had started my own, and I was always amazed at how happy and bliss-y everyone came home from this conference. My curiosity was peaked, and I finally pulled the trigger and attended Blissdom 2012. It was my first blogging conference. And yes, it was amazing.
But it was also emotional and draining and scary and uplifting.
Before the conference kicked into full gear, the lovely ladies of Blissdom put together a newbie meet-up, a chance to meet other new blissdom attendees. I love they thought of this, but I was so overwhelmed by the chaos of the room that I made no connections. And I was postive I was the only one who made no connections. Walking back to my room, I choked back the tears of frustration, loneliness and fear. All I could think of was I still had 2 full days to get through.
Distraught and emotional, I took a quick shower and decided I was not going to be defeated. I got on facebook and found some girls that were heading to dinner. I am so glad I did, they were amazing girls and they helped make my Blissdom experience so positive.
I openly say, these lovely ladies got me through my weekend. We talked and laughed and then talked some more. (If I have not already apologized for talking your ears of....I am sorry).
Friday morning I woke up early, not knowing what to expect, but determined to put on a brave face and see what would come at me. I wanted to be open, I wanted to see who I would meet, and that meant that some of the time I was going at it alone. I sat by myself at a table during the Keynote speech given by Jon Acuff, and dang he did a fabulous job. He made me feel like, yes, I was a valuable part of this conference, even if I wasn't sure I should be there. He made it OK for me to go forth and be Laurie of Little Blue Chairs, even if Little Blue Chairs was not a "big" player.
My days at the conference were a blurr, sitting in sessions and checking out the sponsors. Meeting and greeting other bloggers. Then it was time to let our hair down and have some fun. Friday night was the big, girls night out. As may be able to tell the pre-party was hosted by the Lorax.
I was surprised to find, I did make some connections at the Newbie Mixer- Erica and Gina were my first hugs, and here we are sporting our Lorax mustaches.
I had such big plans for the Friday night gig- We had our drink tickets, I had on my pretty new dress, and I was with my girls....
But a full day of emotion and knowledge acquisition proved to be too much. I called it an early night, and fell asleep with in minutes of my head hitting the pillow. I was exhausted.
I wish I could say I still felt confident when I woke up Saturday morning, but that wouldn't be honest. I hadn't made plans to meet any one for breakfast, I was still just winging it. Going it alone at a conference is hard. I didn't even know who was going to be there. I heard Gail of My rePurposed Life was going, and after making a quick on-line connection, she was the one person I was hoping to see. But she was elusive and by Saturday morning I just assumed I wasn't going to meet her. But there she was in line at breakfast, and she remembered me. And not only did I get to meet Gail, I also meet Rose, who I had been following off and on through my blogging years.
After breakfast, I think I finally felt comfortable, or as comfortable as I was going to get. I was enjoying myself and looking forward the final events. That night was a more casual affair, a PJ party, filled with dancing and karaoke. I had myself a blast. I even managed to win myself some furniture. Yep- furniture. My name was pulled out of a hat-box-whatever. The end result was Famous Footwear sending me the chairs and table they had used at the conference. They are currently in my garage waiting to be unwrapped. Honestly, I don't remember what they look like, but I think I can use them in my basement project. I promise to share more on this later.
That is it in a nutshell, my first blogging conference experience.
If you are reading this post and have not gone to a conference, and wondering if you should go? Conferences are not smooth sailing, but you will learn something about yourself. I say give it a try.
Please spread you bloggy love and check out some of the blogs of the awesome ladies of Blissdom.
Rose at Confessions of a Curbshopaholic
Gail at My rePurposed Life
Denise at Do You Have That in My Size
Aimee at The Plain Wife
Megan at Naturally Thrifty
Greta at Not Enough Patience and Never Enough Jewelry
Gina at Pinch This and Stretch That
Erica at Single Girl Approved
Let me know if all the Blissdom talk makes you want to attend next year.
-Laurie



You were very brave to go it alone. I know how that feels and often I have backed out at the last minute... but I'm glad you pushed through and had a great time. And took home some awesome SWAG that couldn't fit in your bag!! Way to go!!
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Wow! ... First off ... I hope you complete(d) the BlissDom survey and tell them how you felt about the Newbie Meetup! I was in the same boat! Alone. Terrified. Tearful! And you seem to have recovered far better than I did. The evening things were just too hard for me to do alone and though I made some connections through the week ... I guess I'm just NOT a partier! Congrats on boldly going places you had never gone before! Hope that bravery will continue and grow! Bloggers are a pretty friendly lot!
ReplyDeleteit looks like a blast! so glad you made some new friends ad had fun, too!
ReplyDeleteLaurie, I'm so glad to have met you! I was feeling just as overwhelmed and lost in the beginning of the conference, too, but thanks to all of you girls, I became pretty comfortable as time went on. Thanks for the shout-out. :)
ReplyDeleteOh Laurie, I so wish I had met you sooner! I loved hanging out with you on Saturday. I hope we get to meet again, and of course I'll be following your blog to keep up with you too. Since Maryland isn't all that far from NY I hope we can arrange to meet up sometime!
ReplyDeleteLaurie, I'm so glad that I met you! You are such a great person. I think that it was awesome & ironic that you won the beautiful furniture. I love that you were so honest about the Blissdom. I'm glad that I went and I shared many of the feelings that you experienced at Blissdom
ReplyDeleteOhhh Laurie, I wish I had found you on Thursday or Friday. Rose and I didn't make it to the newbies meetup. We were too busy chatting and getting to know one another. I saw you once on Friday, but you were busy with someone. Had I known you were by yourself I would have jumped right in to say hello. I can imagine how difficult it was to go to a conference by yourself, but believe me you did NOT show it. I was so happy to have found you at breakfast on Saturday. I was so looking forward to meeting you.
ReplyDeleteAnd, I must say I was THRILLED when they called your name for the furniture! Don't be a stranger, k?
gail
That's a great picture of us!! I'm so glad I met you and look forward to seeing you at future conferences!!
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